I Took Down My Grandfather's Mounted Deer Head and the Arguing Stopped
A woman removes a taxidermy deer head from her living room after realizing it might be causing tension with her partner.
Location
Austin, Texas, United States
Property Type
House
Room
Living Room
Direction
South
The Problem
My partner and I had been arguing nonstop for weeks. Every little thing turned into a fight. The living room, where we spent most evenings, felt heavy and oppressive. I couldn't figure out why.
What They Tried
I took down the mounted deer head that had been hanging above our sofa for years. It was a family heirloom from my grandfather, but I replaced it with a large abstract painting we both loved.
What Happened
The arguments didn't magically disappear, but the tension in the room lifted. We started talking more calmly. It sounds weird, but the space feels lighter now.
Spatial Orientation
| Bagua Sector | 离 ☲ · Li |
|---|---|
| Direction | South |
| Element | fire |
What works best here
Li (9) · Fire. South should feel more open and lower than North for visual balance.
Place: low-profile furniture, mirrors, glass surfaces, warm lighting.
Recommended crystal
Clear Quartz or Sunstone — placed where it catches natural light, like a windowsill or console table
Mirrors work exceptionally well here — they reflect light and make the room feel larger
Source Analysis
1. The Original Principle
Original Text
Sandy me telefoneó hecha un mar de lágrimas y me explicó lo que le sucedía. Estaba segura de que el chi de un animal muerto colgando de una pared de su sala de estar sería terrible.
English Translation
A classical text advises against decorating living areas with animal skins or taxidermy, as these objects carry a dead energy that can negatively affect the mood and harmony of the household.
2. About the Source
Feng shui para Occidente by Terah Kathryn Collins · United States · 1995
Feng Shui for the West is a practical guide that adapts classical Chinese spatial principles for modern Western homes and lifestyles. Written by one of the first American authors to bring Feng Shui to a mainstream English-speaking audience, the book translates ancient Bagua concepts into actionable room-by-room advice using familiar Western design language and contemporary case examples.
3. How This Principle Applies to This Case
This case illustrates a classical principle about avoiding symbols of death in communal spaces. The text observed that such decorations can create a subtle but persistent sense of unease. Modern psychology supports this: reminders of death can trigger subconscious anxiety, making people more irritable and reactive. Removing the taxidermy from the living room and replacing it with a life-affirming image shifted the emotional tone of the space, reducing conflict.
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